Faux familiarity is worse than none at all
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“Domaine feels like a place you'd like to move into: i.e., pay the rent and stay.” John Hinterberger, The Seattle Times

"Call waiting" doesn't work for me.

Run around trying to desperately make a connection with everyone you meet is a sure recipe for being known as "that guy". You may make a connection or two. But you'll ruin your reputation in the process.It's not about numbers it's about quality.
An honest, authentic connection and everyone's happy. A needy desperate one and someone feels like they've been #@*%$!. Real connections are based on getting to know one another and aligning interests. It's something very natural that thanks to so many people doing it so badly has become confused with something dirty. Maybe instead of calling it "networking" should call it "getting to know people". Maybe then it would have less of a negative connotation.Do it well and more opportunities will come your way.
The more you let yourself be known, and the more you really know others, the more value your network has to you, and you to it. The real value of a connection is in long term relationships.There's connections, and there's connections.
The Cult of Done Manifesto
- There are three states of being. Not knowing, action and completion.
- Accept that everything is a draft. It helps to get it done.
- There is no editing stage.
- Pretending you know what you're doing is almost the same as knowing what you are doing, so just accept that you know what you're doing even if you don't and do it.
- Banish procrastination. If you wait more than a week to get an idea done, abandon it.
- The point of being done is not to finish but to get other things done.
- Once you're done you can throw it away.
- Laugh at perfection. It's boring and keeps you from being done.
- People without dirty hands are wrong. Doing something makes you right.
- Failure counts as done. So do mistakes.
- Destruction is a variant of done.
- If you have an idea and publish it on the internet, that counts as a ghost of done.
- Done is the engine of more.